3 Tips to Start Strength Training: Advice from a Certified Personal Trainer
Starting strength training as a mom can feel like stepping into a whole new world. With endless information online and intimidating gym setups, it’s no wonder many women feel unsure where to begin. But here's the truth: strength training doesn’t have to be scary - it can be simple, empowering, and completely life-changing.
At ABC Fit Collective, we believe that moms deserve fitness that fits into real life. Whether you're postpartum, navigating your toddler’s nap schedule, or just carving out a little "me time," strength training can help you feel stronger, more confident, and ready to take on whatever motherhood throws your way.
So if you're ready to get started but don’t know how, these three tips from our certified personal trainer with over 10 years of experience will set you up for success.
1. Start Slow
The most important part of building a sustainable strength training routine is consistency; not intensity. That’s why we encourage you to start slow and focus on creating a schedule you can actually stick to.
Here’s how to ease in:
- Begin with 2-3 workouts per week that feel manageable
- Focus on compound lifts like squats, deadlifts, bench press, rows, pull-ups, and shoulder press
- Don’t be afraid to use machines - they’re perfect for beginners and help you build confidence and form (They typically have instructions on how to use them, which is helpful for beginners)
Remember: You don’t need to lift heavy or train every day to see results. Progress happens when you show up regularly and train with intention over time.
2. Go In With a Plan
Walking into the gym without a plan can be overwhelming, especially when you’re new to strength training. Having a clear workout strategy can boost your confidence and make your sessions more effective.
Get prepared by:
- Writing out your workouts before heading to the gym
- Purchasing a beginner-friendly fitness program that you can follow step-by-step
- Working with a personal trainer to get customized guidance and accountability
At ABC Fit Collective, our virtual coaching and on-demand programs are designed to remove the guesswork. We’ll help you move safely and confidently, even if you’re starting from scratch. Not to mention, working with a coach will help you optimize the little time you do have to work out so you get the most out of your efforts.
3. Get a Buddy
Everything is more fun with a friend. Having a workout buddy not only makes strength training more enjoyable, but it also keeps you motivated and consistent… plus a little friendly competition never hurt anyone.
Ways to find support:
- Invite a friend to join you for a weekly workout
- Join small group training sessions for community and coaching
- Use the gym as a place to meet like-minded people who are also on a fitness journey (classes at the gym are a great way to meet other moms)
When you’re part of a supportive fitness community (like ours), you’ll be more likely to stick with your routine and celebrate your wins along the way.
Strength Training Tips for Moms
- Prioritize Consistency Over Perfection - Just showing up is a win.
- Track Your Progress - Keep a notebook or app to record your lifts and reps, this will help you gauge your strength over time.
- Mix It Up - Alternate between machines, free weights, and bodyweight to stay engaged.
- Use Proper Form - Learn foundational movement patterns first. Don’t rush to add weight like squats, deadlifts, presses, rows, planks etc.
- Ask for Help - You don’t have to figure it out alone. Expert guidance makes all the difference.
The Bottom Line: You Deserve to Feel Strong
At ABC Fit Collective, we specialize in helping you build sustainable strength routines that fit your life. Whether you’re lifting dumbbells in your living room or stepping into the gym for the first time, we’re here to guide and cheer you on.
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