Trick or Treat Yo’ Self: Why Exercise Is the Ultimate Mom Self-Care

October 26, 2025

Hey mama. Let us guess: you’ve got your kid’s Halloween costume picked out, the snacks packed, the calendar color-coded… and your own well-being? Somewhere buried under a pile of laundry and crushed Goldfish.


We see you. And we know you’re juggling a lot. Maybe you’re feeling touched out, burned out, and wondering how everyone else seems to have their life together and a solid workout routine. (Spoiler: they don’t.) But here’s the truth—you don’t need to do it all. You just need to start treating your own needs like they matter.



Because they do.


That’s why we’re here to remind you that fitness isn’t another thing to check off your to-do list. It’s your ticket back to you. It’s your reset button. It’s self-care that lasts way longer than a bubble bath. (Though we’re pro those, too.)

The Mom Guilt Is Real (But It Doesn’t Have to Run the Show)

Let’s talk about that voice in your head that whispers things like, "You should be spending this time with your kids," or "You’re being selfish for wanting 30 minutes to yourself."



Kristie here—a few years ago, I was training a first-time mom who showed up late to our virtual session, hair in a messy bun, burp cloth over her shoulder. She apologized for being late because her baby had a blowout and then cried for 45 minutes straight. When we finally started moving, she teared up and said, "This is the first time all day I’ve felt like myself."

That hit hard.


Because we hear that all the time. Mamas are out here giving their all, and then wondering why they feel like they’re running on fumes. It’s not because you’re doing something wrong. It’s because you’re putting everyone else first, and you’re not on your own damn list.


You deserve to feel strong, grounded, and connected to your body again. And that’s what fitness can do—when it’s built for you, not just modified around you.

Here’s the Trick: You Don’t Need More Time—You Need a Better System

We created the ABC Fit Virtual Gym for mamas like you, who want to feel good in their bodies again but need it to actually fit into their real life. (Not the Pinterest version.)



Our workouts are:


  • Short (15-30 minutes)
  • Effective (backed by science, not TikTok trends)
  • Designed for every stage of motherhood (pregnancy, postpartum, and beyond)
  • Led by certified pre/postnatal experts (that’s us!)
  • Accessible anytime, anywhere (even in your living room, with a toddler using you as a jungle gym)

No commuting. No comparing. Just workouts that make you feel like the badass you already are.

5 Ways to Treat Yo’ Self with Fitness That Actually Works

Let’s make this fun. Here are five self-care tricks (and treats) to get you moving, feeling better, and reclaiming your energy:

Schedule Your Workout Like an Appointment

You wouldn’t cancel on your kid’s dentist appointment, right? Block off 20-30 minutes in your calendar like it’s sacred—because it is.


Start Small and Stay Consistent
Don’t overthink it. Ten minutes is better than zero. One ABC Fit Express workout is all it takes to shift your mood.

Use Your Breath as a Reset Tool
Our ABC Method starts with breath—because reconnecting to your core and calming your nervous system is real-deal self-care. Try a few deep diaphragmatic breaths before your workout to ground yourself.

Find a Community That Gets You
Join the Virtual Gym and you’re not just getting workouts—you’re getting a
village. We host live classes, real talk on Instagram, and a monthly book club that’s actually fun.

Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection
You showed up? That’s a win. You moved your body even though you were exhausted? Gold star. Progress isn’t linear, but every step counts.

The Bottom Line

Mama, you are worthy of care. Not someday. Not when the house is clean or the kids are grown. Now.


Fitness doesn’t have to be overwhelming or another thing to stress about. With the ABC Fit Virtual Gym, it’s flexible, fun, and made just for you.


So go ahead—treat yo' self. Reclaim your strength, your time, and your sense of self. Because a stronger you is the best gift you can give your family.


Ready to feel strong as a mother?


👉 Start your 5-day free trial of the ABC Fit Virtual Gym today and take the first step toward fitness that fits you.

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